Change Happens

Change is never an easy thing. Most people do not handle it well because we all become comfortable in our routines and schedules, so when our lifestyle experiences a drastic change it can create a major disturbance in our emotional state. It can cause anger, frustration, disappointment, and if it is too much too fast it can even cause depression.

Change is something that we all encounter in our lives. Sometimes it is good even though we do not immediately perceive it as such. Whether the change in our life is good or bad, the main thing that we must focus on is that we are still in total control of our own lives and we can sit back and let circumstances destroy us, or we can adjust to the changes in a fashion that is suitable for us. We are all in control of our selves and we can (and should) make adjustments according to our own will.

Even a good change will be a cause for major adjustment. Every change causes a ripple effect in our lives. You can not make a change in your life without it effecting every other area of your life, be it good or bad is up to you. Always remember that you are in control! Your life is yours, your actions are based upon your own decisions, and your decisions will be based upon your ability to control your emotions. You must maintain a focus upon what it is that you truly desire for yourself in life and who you are, or you can become dis-oriented in a time of change and end up following a course of action that can send you straight into a pit of despair. You deserve better.

When you face a major change in life, sit back and evaluate your situation. Analyze what you are facing and how it effects the different parts of your life. For every part of your life that this change will effect, decide how you will make this work out to your benefit or at least to your acceptance. Take the circumstances and make them into something that you can accept, then make it happen. If you do this then you will take a devastating change and make it into something that you have decided upon. A change that is acceptable to you. This really works if you simply do it.

We all face change like it or not. Some of us will adapt and overcome. Some will be defeated and live in misery. I don’t know about all of you, but I do not like misery, and I will not accept defeat. Make your adjustments, stay focused, and go get yours!!

Logan